With a Doctor’s Precision…
Okay. It’s lengthy.
After 4 days of running back in my mind the moments of pure ecstasy and reliving the experience with Sir, I am finally writing this review. From the time I came across one of Sir’s videos, I was instantly hooked and drawn down the rabbit hole. To hear him speak with such understanding and being able to accurately articulate and educate on the mental, physical, and emotional aspect and rewards of the community drew me in. It was refreshing to hear a man accurately articulate things I communicate to men time and time again, and still come out feeling unheard. I felt like Sir heard me without even not knowing him.
But it still wasn’t enough for me to book at that moment.
Being the overthinker that I am, I continued to dig, research, listen, and follow his page just to see how legit he was, and let me tell you…he did not disappoint. I finally decided to throw caution to the wind and dm for a consultation, because in my mind I was going to have a few months to prepare myself for this endeavor.
During my consultation, the interaction was very organic and comfortable. As an educator myself, I could tell this man has earned the right to be called an expert & specialist. Matter of fact, let’s get this man a doctorate!
It was refreshing to have this conversation and to be heard and taught about yourself, even in the consultation. There was even a moment where tears began to fall from my eyes…that is the power of being heard and understood. He was able to read me like a book before I even said a word. And to hear the joy and enthusiasm in his voice when he speaks is also very comforting and is contagious.
My initial plan was to book for my birthday, however…Christmas came early folks! I knew that this was my time and moment to experience something life changing. I knew it sounded crazy to fly all the way from Louisiana to New Jersey for this, but I knew it was something I needed and needed to do.
Days drawing closer to my session, I grew extremely nervous but still excited. The day of the session, I felt like I was preparing to perform in Madison Square Gardens for a concert. I felt like I was having an out of body experience. “Are you really here? Are you really doing this?” is what I asked myself.
Upon my arrival, Sir met and greeted me with a smile and a hug…and yes…he looks just as great in those suits in person as he does in the pictures and videos. My nerves continued to grow as we got closer to the dungeon.
Once there, we talked and he asked me how I was feeling. Again, it was very organic, as I feared that I would be extremely awkward. After talking for a while he segued into negotiations where I was introduced to his Marvelous collection of toys & tools. The way he explained everything was extremely through and intriguing to say the least. It was very well thought out and intentional. While he was talking, I was ready to say yes to whatever he wanted to do, that is how safe, protected, and cared for I felt.
After negotiations, it was time to begin. He started with a massage that catered to EVERY part of my body..and I mean EVERY part…there was no part of my body that was not carefully cared for. With every touch, every rub, every tool, every toy, every oil, everything used was used very intentionally and skillfully. I could feel the tension from my body leave with every exhale while at the same time feeling the blood begin to flow and arouse every part of me. With every touch, every part of me wanted more.
After my massage it was time to move into the BDSM scene. Hearing him tell me how good I did and how beautiful I looked, even pulling my hair, fed something on the inside of me I had long yearned for. As we moved to the BDSM scene, the sound of Sir’s voice sent my body into a place of pure euphoria as he instructed and commanded me. Even being blindfolded and restrained, I felt completely safe and ready for whatever he had for me.
No matter how much I wanted to hold back or overthink, I was able to, as Sir would say, “be present”. I was able to be free. Even while being punished, I still felt adored, worshiped and worthy of being adored & worshiped. Even during the times of discomfort, I didn’t want him to stop, I wanted him to keep going, I refused to say the words to have him stop or slow down. It was more than just a time of pleasure but a time of learning that.
Learning things that my body can do that I never thought or knew it could.
Learning that I have more stamina than I ever knew.
Learning to let go and just be present.
When the session was over, I was expecting to clean myself up and be sent on my way. Well, I was all the way wrong! The aftercare restored some of what was put out during the session, and I didn’t realize how much I needed that.
Even the debrief was super DOPE! Sir has restored my faith in humanity. I’m also surprised I didn’t receive a cleaning bill after the session! Because listen….well….book for yourself to find out.
Although, throughout the entire experience from stumbling upon his page all the way up to the session and thereafter, my favorite moments were simply when he was patient with me. In my experience, I’ve usually been rushed away after a time of intimacy, but something as simple as “take your time getting your things together, take your time putting your shoes and coat on” sparked something in me. Because let me be honest…I'm not even patient with myself. With others…yes…myself…no. That spoke volumes to me.
I now know what it means to EXHALE. And I’ll do it again.
I appreciate how intentional, well-versed, knowledgeable, and attentive Sir is. I am already looking at my calendar to make plans to book with him in the next coming months and to treat myself multiple times throughout the year. Sir has a lifelong client in me for sure.
There is so much more I can say, but it will have to wait until the next session which I’m looking to experience more and kick it up a notch. So stop hesitating and book that consultation NOW, every part of your being will be glad you did!
